Hi Joebag
no correct torque is not semantics and its not a matter of trusting guys to do the right thing because clearly they are not at the moment. If your IW has no adjustment for torque or is a fixed preset at 30Nm then the wrong thing is already being done.
With regards the stress applied to couplers on a day to day basis the stress created by overstressing the bolt is a way bigger problem.
Always happy to try and answer questions but not sure I can answer them all adequatley
It looks like another feather in the cap for the system scaffolding fan club.